Human is an apogee of nature creations. People are glorified, adored, exalted. A lot of monuments, poems, paintings are dedicated to them. We are able to feel emotions and make our own choices, we are endowed with reason and limitless possibilities in terms of self-realization because we possess a huge potential. It looks like the perfect story without flaws, with no way to deny the obvious, but is this so?
Human nature is the most paradoxical of all creations: we want to be with those who repels us; we risk our lives in order to get enjoyment; just being on the verge of death we really understand how we want to live. Animals are guided only by their own instincts. Have you ever seen a zebra that stops and watches the grace of a lion that hunts her? Then, one question comes out - why human, the perfect creature ever made, throws herself into the fire because she wants it or she cannot get rid of this habit?
Mistakes in Our Life
Of course, we make a lot of mistakes that definitely frustrate us if we have at least a crumb of conscience. However, after that people usually get depressed, feel a kind of apathy to life. After the serious mistakes, we are destroying our lives even more by that inability to cope with the negative things and emotions. You might say that this is our nature, together with the ability to feel emotions we do not know how to manage them. However, you can change everything.
Do Not Worry About Everything
Just spare a thought how many good things you missed in your life because of being too concerned about the problems. We are just eating ourselves up inside with those ill thoughts. But remember one simple truth: if the problem can be solved, then solve it as soon as possible. And if you cannot change anything, it makes no sense to worry about it.
Do Something Useful
Man cannot think about two things at the same time. Do something really interesting and all-consuming and you will not have the time for negative thoughts.
Talk About Your Problems
No matter whether your friend will give you some advice or set you straight, just talk. By thinking out loud about mistakes you reveal those aspects of the situation that you have not noticed before. Even the fact that someone listens to you and understands brings you sort of peace and comfort.
The main thing that unites all these principles - do not get stuck on the negative things. Do not be afraid of making mistakes. They are very useful for our self-development and building our character.